Listening for What Comes Back

Listening for What Comes Next

February 04, 20264 min read

Listening for What Comes Next

There comes a moment in many women’s lives when quiet concerns haunt us—often unannounced, often unspoken.

Is it too late?
Did I miss my chance?
Is my most meaningful chapter already behind me?

Not with a shout. It whispers. It arrives in the stillness—after children are grown, after a career shift, after loss or illness, after a season that changed everything. It shows up when the pace of life slows just enough for us to hear ourselves think.

What if that whisper stirs up a longing you’ve long ignored?

What if it is an invitation?

The Myth of Being “Behind”

We live in a culture that celebrates early success, fast results, and loud beginnings. We are taught to believe that worth is measured by milestones reached by a certain age, and that if we haven’t “arrived” by now, we’ve somehow failed.

But the soul does not keep score that way.

The soul understands timing differently. It honors readiness over speed, depth over display, and wisdom over performance. It knows that some stories must be lived before they can be told.

If you feel like your life has been a series of detours, pauses, or unexpected turns, it may be because your story required experience before expression.

You are not behind.
You are becoming.

When Life Cracks You Open

Often, the most meaningful beginnings come after something breaks open.

A diagnosis.
A loss.
A divorce.
A move you never planned.
A moment when the life you knew no longer fits.

These experiences can leave us feeling unmoored—unsure of who we are now or what comes next. But they also have a way of stripping away what was never truly ours to carry.

They soften us.
They deepen us.
They prepare us.

Your story is still beginning because you are still becoming the woman who can hold it with compassion.

The Sacred Work of Becoming

Becoming is quiet work.

It doesn’t announce itself.
It doesn’t rush.
It unfolds inwardly first.

Becoming looks like learning to listen to your own voice after years of silencing it. It looks like choosing truth over approval. It looks like allowing grief and joy to coexist. It looks like honoring what you’ve survived without letting it define you.

This stage of life—this chapter you’re in right now—is not a holding pattern. It is preparation.

The roots are growing deeper.
The clarity is forming.
The courage is gathering.

Your Story Is Not Finished—It Is Finding Its Voice

Many women hesitate to claim their story because it feels unfinished or imperfect. They wait for healing to be complete, for answers to be clear, for confidence to arrive.

But stories do not need to be finished to be meaningful.

They need to be true.

Your voice doesn’t emerge because everything is resolved. It emerges because you are willing to speak from where you are—honestly, tenderly, and without pretending.

Your story is still beginning because your relationship with it is still evolving.

Wisdom Comes Later—for a Reason

There is a reason wisdom often arrives later in life.

It is earned.
It is embodied.
It is tempered by compassion.

The experiences you once questioned—those years you spent doubting yourself, caring for others, starting over, or holding everything together—have been shaping your ability to see clearly now.

You are not starting from scratch.
You are starting from experience.

And that is a powerful place to begin.

Writing as a Way Home

For many women, writing becomes the bridge between who they’ve been and who they are becoming.

Writing doesn’t demand answers.
It invites listening.
It creates space for truth to rise gently.

When you write your story—not to impress, not to publish, but to understand—you begin to see how every chapter has been leading you here.

Back to yourself.
Back to your voice.
Back to the wisdom that has always lived within you.

You are in a state of awareness now because you are finally ready to hear it.

An Invitation to Trust What’s Unfolding

If you feel a quiet stirring—a nudge to reflect, to write, to speak more honestly about your life—trust it. That nudge is not random. It is the soul recognizing readiness.

You are not too late.
You are not starting over.
You are starting true.

This chapter may not look the way you once imagined, but it holds something deeper: meaning, presence, and the freedom to live—and write—from your own inner authority.

Your Beginning Is Now

You are listening to what comes next because your Soul story matters. That is the most sacred beginning of all.

Mary E. Knippel, the Soul Story Writer, best-selling author, inspirational speaker, writing mentor, and retreat leader, helps Transformational Leaders connect to their soul’s calling and articulate it into the written word. Working together as a team, Mary helps you craft and package your vision into professional credibility assets to grow your business, attract clients and leave a legacy beyond this lifetime. Contact her at www.maryeknippel.com.

Mary E Knippel

Mary E. Knippel, the Soul Story Writer, best-selling author, inspirational speaker, writing mentor, and retreat leader, helps Transformational Leaders connect to their soul’s calling and articulate it into the written word. Working together as a team, Mary helps you craft and package your vision into professional credibility assets to grow your business, attract clients and leave a legacy beyond this lifetime. Contact her at www.maryeknippel.com.

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